During: Change the Scenery
One of the surest ways to quickly change behavior is to change surroundings. Often, just getting out of the environment of the tantrum can help end it.
Whether you're in a rental car, a museum or a restaurant, if your toddler starts screaming bloody murder and you've tried everything else, get out of there. Step out of the building, pull over, or get to a different exhibit -- anything to change the scenery. A new location can usher in a new attitude.
And worst comes to worst, you've at least saved your fellow adults an unpleasant interlude.
Once the tantrum ends -- and it will end -- you've got one more job to do.
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