Wear Straps or Sleeves
Strapless gowns may be in vogue, but most plus-size brides should beware this style, which tends to accentuate and widen shoulders and arms. Luckily, most bridal shops can add sleeves or straps to any dress, so you're not stuck with what's available on the showroom floor.
When selecting sleeves or straps, make sure the material doesn't squeeze or bind your arms, shoulder or back. Avoid sleeves that start puffy and end smooth or fitted, as they have tendency to make arms look bigger. Instead, choose short capped or lacy sleeves, or a light, long-sleeved jacket that can be worn over the dress. If you're getting married in the fall or winter months, you can opt for a classic bell-sleeved wedding dress.