Don't Add Stress
There are some things to keep in mind, though. If the prospective groom is wandering around looking dazed and disoriented, the last thing he'll want is to be responsible for finding the perfect wedding gift to create a memory-making moment. On the other hand, if he's a poet at heart, he may appreciate the opportunity to express his more tender sentiments. Finances can have an impact on the gesture too. Weddings are pricey, and if you don't need one more expense, skip the exchange. If you like the notion but money is tight right now, write each other IOUs for kisses, backrubs or other intimacies that are priceless but not a drain on your finances.