Forget the standard "to honor and obey." Many couples today are writing their own wedding vows to reflect what's special about their unique relationship. Even if he's not the best writer, he'll enjoy this chance to tell everyone how he feels about you in his own words. Writing vows will appeal to his romantic side, and no one can describe what he loves about you better than him! If your guy doesn't know where to begin, ask him to choose a favorite song lyric, poem or religious passage to read aloud during the ceremony.
But your handsome Hemingway doesn't have to stop at the vows. Many grooms like writing toasts and speeches to thank the best man and other members of the wedding party. After all, these are the guys who planned his bachelor party and stood by him on the biggest day of his life. He'll be glad to offer a few funny stories and words of thanks.