Let Them Clean Up Their Own Messes
So, you've read the guidelines for giving handouts to your adult kids. Here's another one: If they keep asking, know when to say when. Sure, we've all been in tough spots and needed a hand, but watch out that your darling child doesn't start taking advantage. If you're tired of being Daddy Warbucks, march your child over to the nearest bank and show her how to fill out a loan application.