Some overzealous brides insist on planning their entire weddings. But then they feel jilted when they catch their beaus slaying aliens over Xbox Live when they're revising the seating chart again.
If this sounds like you, we're here to tell you that you can't have it both ways! Before you toss out his video games with that tacky old beer stein, talk to him about what you need and expect from him. Jot down a list of things you'd like him to help with, and keep him posted on deadlines and vendor meeting dates. Chances are he'll be glad to assist if you let him -- you just need to give him something to do.