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Top 10 Parenting Tips for Tweens


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Don't Make the Sex Talk a One-time Thing
You may be dreading the awkward sex talk, but it's best to keep dialogue open so your tween is comfortable coming to you with questions.
You may be dreading the awkward sex talk, but it's best to keep dialogue open so your tween is comfortable coming to you with questions.
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The sex talk. Admit it, just thinking about it makes you wince. And your tween is even less eager to talk to you about it. Yet, it has to be done. You may think your child is too young for such a discussion, but you only have to turn on MTV or eavesdrop on a group of middle-schoolers to learn that it's a hot topic in the tween world.

As they approach and enter puberty, tweens' curiosity about sex will naturally grow. Add to that a sex-obsessed pop culture, and you have a dangerous combination. That's why, rather than just having a one-time sex talk with your child, you should instead have an open dialogue that allows either of you to bring the topic up at any time.


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